“I am the true vine, and my Father is the vine grower.

Remaining in Communion is so very important when you have been Baptized and Confirmed you become a disciple with a mission. Without the Church there is little hope of truly being a part of Jesus mission. There are many levels that need to be incorporated into the faith and of course 'love' is always expressed as charity and true charity is something that is given by the work of the Holy Spirit. The Gifts are what we need to show to others, including other people even if they are wrong or annoying.